Music video of Master and Servent

I can’t think of a single image that I find erotic that I have in my collection or have seen on line for that matter.

Hands down its the flogger, I just love how it feel in my hands and the sound it makes when hitting skin.

Can’t describe something that I’ve never had or don’t have for that matter, guess its wait till tomorrow to answer a question.

Getting raped would have been the first kinky sexual experience, yes not the way of getting into BDSM that one would like but it was my first introduction into it all, at the hands of my first partner. It was also the experiance that almost ended any interest in BDSM before it even got started, but I gave it another short years later and that experiance was much better by far, but it wasn’t of a sexual nature. I can actually say that sex and kink are two different areas for me they do not cross between each other.

I actually can not think of anything as a child that even hinted at my inner kinky self, less it was my drive to always be in charge and my unwillingness to follow without good reason to do so (ya that meant some teachers I just didn’t get along with because I didn’t trust them in their ability to actually teach me anything).

I was rather young when I first learned about kink, my mom had gotten be a few sex books to read though and one of the books talked about bondage, sexual roll playing and using toys and it caught my attention that I wished to experiance it when the right person came into my life, which didn’t happen the first person to experment with wasn’t the right person to do so with but it gave me that taste and I was hooked so to speak.

Bondage – I enjoy watching someone who has chosen to submit to me bound before me, watching me and wondering what I am going to do next to them if anything at all, it is sweet watching them watching me not knowing what is yet to come. I also enjoy the feel of being bound myself how relaxing it can be and freeing it can feel.

Impact Play – The sounds of a flogger, crop or cane hitting open flesh the grunt, the grone, the sharp intake of breath followed by the sigh, or the screams of joy and pleasure that can ripple though the air.

Mummification – The feel of floating in space, not knowing which way is up or down or what is going to happen to you next because you have put complete trust into the person who has mummified you.

There are more things that come under this that I enjoy doing and doing to others, but right now trying to think of them and explain them is drawing a blink, will return to this post at a later date.

Its not been an easy journey for either of us, and though its not been easy I still feel that it has been all worth it.

I love you my boy, you make my day that much brighter and with you in my life that much more fun.

Take care peeps,
LM

I’m a D type though I can and do switch with my boy as the mood strikes between us to do so, but I am his Mistress when all is said and dun.

Most aspects of BDSM interest me to various degrees, though some areas I just have no interest in what so ever. But of the ones which do interest me Power Exchange, Collars, Restraint, Fire Play, Impact Play, and the like catch my attention the most.

As to trying to define my kinky self that is going to be harder still because I am who I am, kink is just one part of who I am. Its like being a fur is just another side of who I am, as is being pagan and a wife, each term has its own part in my life and rounds out who I am as a person. Kink does play a large part within my life in general but it doesn’t take front stage as it does for some people, though we do live it on a daily basis its something which is just part of our life without much thought given to it.